Trully Understand People
When I was a kid, I don’t think to get known about other people…
I’m still don’t understand about the existancy of other people…
I’m got growing, and I becoming knew that people are differents one to another…
I can’t have a different opinion, different life, different though with people…
And how uniquely they are…
In this nowdays, when I’m getting grow more, I have been know that sometimes what people shows outside doesn’t always same with the inside. They could have so differents or even opposite things behind what has been shown to us…
Sometimes…
People that you think as ypur friends, could also hit you back from the behind…
This means that you have to very smart of reading people’s heart..
Is this what being adult means??!
At the next chapter of our lifes, the challenges is keep changing…
After I know the true about people… So what still I have to learn is : that I’ve got to keeps survival in this world.. with that kind of knowledge…that sadly and disappointly knowledge…
To never giving hopes…
To never loosing cheers…
To keeps stronger and stronger…
That’s what my next goal of lives!
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suwito HP 3:19 am pada 29 Januari 2010 Permalink |
Yup, sometimes we must realize that there will always be a distance in relationship. Even, the person him/herself can’t fully understand his/herself. That’s why we must behave according to the surrounding norm and the trap of hallo effect can affect us. Actually, it’s very natural. Not one of us want to look bad in front of other people. But, the more frequent we meet each other, it means the closer our relationship is. In this case, the hallo effect might begin decreasing, and our real self as “Imperfect” person, can make the others re-think of us.
Is it wrong to be “Imperfect”? Of course, only an impostor claims that he/ she is the “Rightful” one.
But, if the relationship is worth keeping and treasuring, we would eventually learn to grow together, to understand each other, not as two or more “Perfect” beings, but, as “Better” beings.
If not, well, nothing can be done, but, find another better relationship.
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