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  • Redaksi 2:38 am pada 13 January 2010 Permalink | Balas
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    Cewek Vs Cowok 

    ‎​LELAKI MEMANG MENYUSAHKAN !

    Jika kamu memperlakukannya dengan baik, dia pikir kamu jatuh cinta padanya.
    Jika tidak, kamu akan dibilang sombong.

    Jika kamu berpakaian bagus, dia pikir kamu sedang mencoba untuk
    menggodanya.
    Jika tidak, dia bilang kamu kampungan.

    Jika kamu berdebat dengannya, dia bilang kamu keras kepala.
    Jika kamu tetap diam, dia bilang kamu nggak punya otak.

    Jika kamu lebih pintar dari pada dia, dia akan kehilangan muka.
    Jika dia yang lebih pintar, dia bilang dia paling hebat.

    Jika kamu tidak cinta padanya, dia akan mencoba mendapatkanmu.
    Jika kamu mencintainya, dia akan mencoba untuk meninggalkanmu.

    Jika kamu beritahu dia masalahmu, dia bilang kamu menyusahkan.
    Jika tidak, dia bilang kamu tidak mempercayai mereka.

    Jika kamu cerewet pada dia, kamu dibilang seperti seorang pengasuh
    baginya.
    Tapi jika dia yang cerewet ke kamu, itu karena dia perhatian.

    Jika kamu langgar janji kamu, kamu tidak bisa dipercaya.
    Jika dia yang ingkari janjinya, dia melakukannya karena terpaksa.

    Jika kamu merokok, kamu adalah cewek liar !
    Tapi kalo dia yang merokok, dia adalah seorang gentleman, Wuihhh !

    Jika kamu menyakitinya, kamu dibilang perempuan kejam.
    Tapi jika dia yang menyakitimu, dia bilang itu hanya karena kamu terlalu sensitif, dan terlalu sulit untuk dibuat bahagia !

    Jika kamu mengirimkan ini pada cowok-cowok, mereka pasti bersumpah kalau ini tidak benar.
    Tapi jika kamu tidak mengirimkan ini pada mereka, kamu akan kehilangan kesempatan untuk mengatakan mereka egois!

    Jadi.. Jadi….. kirimkan ini pada semua teman lelakimu di luar sana ….
    dan juga pada semua teman cewekmu untuk berbagi tawa bersama…

    • too keep us refleksi diri ya semuanya… ;-) cowo maupun cewe… *
     

    • ervinekiddies 12:53 pm pada 31 Januari 2010 Permalink | Balas

      Tapi kalo cowoknya ga’ datang ceweknya nyariin juga….wahaha
      Salam kenal

      Ervine

    • Paei paei 5:26 am pada 19 Agustus 2010 Permalink | Balas

      Ku sebagai cowok sejati ga suka d katain kaya gtw
      koplak banget

  • Redaksi 2:20 am pada 13 January 2010 Permalink | Balas
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    Tips Hubungan Awet 

    Cara untuk membuat suatu hub awet:

    • mencintai satu sama lain
    • jangan menipu
    • ber komunikasi secara terbuka
    • ketika kamu terluka, maafkan dan lupakanlah.
    • jangan pernah membicarakan ttg perpisahan
    • jangan berkata semuanya baik2 saja ketika sesungguhnya itu TIDAK baik2 saja
    • lupakan GENGSI
    • jika kau berkata MAAF, bersungguh2lah meminta maaf.
    • jangan bandingkan masa lalumu dengan masa sekarang.
    • jangan pernah berbicara tentang MANTANmu yg bodoh itu.
    • saling MEMBERI dan MENERIMA.
    • berhati2 lah dengan perasaannya.
    • Jika kamu bertengkar, jangan biarkan pertengkaran itu berlalu lebih dari sehari tanpa penyelesaian.
    • jangan menjadi seseorang yang SEMPURNA, tetapi jadilah seseorang yang BENAR.

    NN

     

  • Redaksi 5:21 pm pada 17 November 2009 Permalink | Balas
    Tags: Relationship   

    Personal Trust 

    PERSONAL TRUST
    Seberapa jauhkah kita mengenal seseorang? Teman yang tampak begitu baik dan menyenangkan.. Do they really like that inside? Its show by time… Apakah kebaikan itu ditampilkan hanya untuk suatu maksud dan waktu tertentu? Hal ini dapat kita jawab sendiri dengan berjalannya waktu dengannya. I think it call friends build by the time. True friend are proven during times.
    So takes ur time if you have a new friend. Specially for partner in live. Don’t rush to get married. Think carefully so never regret oin behind.
    I always wish the best for all of you… If you need any friend to talk, contact me, I’m welcome 4 u.

     

    • suwito HP 6:04 am pada 4 Desember 2009 Permalink | Balas

      Hmm…I totally agree with “Show by Time” (Like my comment in the article of “Loneliness”).

      Basically there are 4 windows of personality, according to Johari Window.
      1. I know u know = Public self
      2. I know u don’t know = Hidden Self
      3. I don’t know u know = Blind Self
      4. I don’t know u don’t know = Unknown Self

      In a more detail explanation:

      Public and Hidden Self = Conscious Mind

      > It can be manipulated and keep, for a short time, in a fun way and fun times, what’s more in front of a group of people who don’t meet everyday.
      > Hallo Effect takes its role here

      Blind and Unknown Self = Unconscious Mind

      > It can not be manipulated and always show up automatically when someone is under pressure, what’s more in everyday close contact.

      > Long term effect, of course

      That’s why, it is very understandable when a new happy married young couple who have been dating for a couple of years and both were sure that they had known each other so very well before marriage, are surprised to know the real self of their partner, and must adapt again during their marriage.

      However, marriage is a journey, not a destination. Of course, it’s very naïve to think that each one is better from the other that makes them both destroy their own relationship. It only happens in immature couples. Unluckily, most people like to live in fantasy than in reality, especially women (no offense, loh, just talking the truth)

      There are a lot of women, who dream to meet a perfect hero of their dream, forgetting that there are no such thing in reality, then, it ends up in misery and saying bitterly that all men are crocodiles.

      Hmm… One of my friends, even said that the Truth Hurts, after she, herself with her own eyes, found out that her ex-boyfriend (who is a young clergyman at her church), already has a fiancee. Whereas, actually, she had been warned before.

      Well, the Truth Never Hurts. It’s our own selves who don’t want to see the Truth from the beginning. We prefer to see the beautiful fantasy than the unpleasant reality, thus, making us to live in hypocrisy.

      So, of course, once again, marriage is a journey, not a destination, for the responsible mature future parents.

      ^_^

  • Redaksi 12:30 pm pada 16 November 2009 Permalink | Balas
    Tags: Relationship   

    Loneliness
    Is loneliness only happen when people get alone? I don’t think so. I think we all ever felts alone even if somebody else is arround us. So when does loneliness is attack us?
    In my observation, we can feel alone when we feel people surround us doesn’t understand about us, about our dream, about our feeling, etc.
    In other time, sometimes we can feel alone when we felt people arround us is just not a true friends like what its looks. This situation usually happen in bisnis community, where competition is just getting too hard.
    The question is: can we avoid loneliness? Is having lots of friends can dissappear loneliness? I think as long as we life, sometimes we still will felt the loneliness.
    Its okay. Coz we always were an individual person. No one will ever trully understand or always with us in everytime.
    I think loneliness can also usefull to reminder us about things. When facing a fake friend, it remember us how precious family/true friendship does. When we were drop and feeling sad being alone, it remember how precious many laughter the we has before. When we get alone, it remember us how we should be more appreciate affiliates that we has, etc.
    What important is, don’t lose with the loneliness. It will pass away.
    In religion view: don’t forget that God never leave you, so be strong!

     

    • Suwito HP 8:43 am pada 3 Desember 2009 Permalink | Balas

      “No Man Is An Island”, that’s what an old saying told us. In my opinion, loneliness is closely related with personality. According to the scientific findings, introvert people most likely keep distance with social interaction. It’s not because they hate being someone’s friend. But, they prefer having a private area more wider than the opposite personality (Extrovert). And if we divide in a more detail characteristic, Melancholic and Phlegmatic are among the introvert side.

      If the problem of loneliness is because of difficulty to be understood (well, like me to be honest), then, it’s mostly because of the perfectionist character that lies in the melancholic personality. A melancholic one would prefer a perfect image about their surroundings, even about their own image, that’s why, the greatest scientists, artists, philosophers mostly belong to the melancholic side, while, the entertainers, marketers, are on the sanguine side.

      Is it a connection with true friend and fake friend?

      Basically, most of us have different levels of friendship among each other:

      1. Know by name and by face only : Say hi only when they meet face to face
      2. Acquaintance (kenalan): Sometimes hang out together or if there’s a purpose to make it a better relationship
      3. Common friend: Fun cliche, in fun times and fun ways
      4. Close friend: Frequently contact each other with a deeper trust each other
      5. Best friend: Someone in ups and downs although there’s still a space, not intimacy
      6. True friend: Intimate relationship (usually after marriage)

      Fake or not, it depends on the importance of the relationship for each others. Perhaps, it’s better if we define it with “Sincere or not”, but, in fun times, it’s very difficult to describe this Sincerity.

      That’s my opinion, of course by learning. ^_^

  • Redaksi 4:57 pm pada 11 November 2009 Permalink | Balas
    Tags: Relationship   

    Dont Be Sad 

    Jika kita mendengar banyak komentar dari orang lain… Janganlah bersedih.

    Mungkin itu cuman omongan sederhana dan masukkan atau saran dan pendapat yang diberikan orang lain untuk ‘kebaikan’ kita. Namun kadang itu bisa membuat kita sedih atau kecewa. Tetaplah berbesar hari.

    Semakin banyak dengar komentar orang, memang kadang semakin bingung.
    Namun Ingatlah : setiap orang menjalani kehidupannya sendiri-sendiri. Dengar saran itu bagus dan wajib. Tapi jangan lupa untuk tetap berpendirian dan memikirkan yang terbaik untuk diri sendiri.

    Engkau lah yang paling mengetahui dan memahami dirimu sendiri. Be Happy, Be Brave, Be Gracefull for what you are.

     

    • Aurelia 3:53 am pada 12 November 2009 Permalink | Balas

      Waduh Deasy udah punya blog..ndak rugi kursus des..SEP DECHH..rajin2 posting lho…

    • santi 6:54 am pada 12 November 2009 Permalink | Balas

      Setuju. Pendapat orang emang membuat kita bingung, tapi pendapat hanya pendapat karena mereka yang bukan merasakannya tapi kita sendiri. Keputusan kahir berada ditangan kita sendiri, tergantung kita berani apa tidak, tapi ingat ada Yesus yang akan menolong kita. GBU

      • Redaksi 5:37 pm pada 12 November 2009 Permalink | Balas

        tepat sekali. saran orang lain diberikan karena mereka peduli (its positive thinking). tapi keputusan tetap ada pada diri sendiri dengan segala dampaknya.

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