Success And Single-part 1
Being success at work while you are young, and also mingle, easily bring dillemas. Specially when you’re living in east culture, like Indonesia.
In Indonesia, head of the family is in fatherhood. This makes that successful at work is not an important things for women. If they ask to choose: rather ur daughter became a great CEO or became a great wife? Still most choose the second ones. Even in this modern life!
Career Women
This is what difficulties of single working women. The ambition for getting success at work defeated by the willingness of getting married, and having a happiness ever after (“,).
Even when your parents commonly says or shows that they proud to you : a successful career women, still in their mind, they wonder when you getting married. That’s the biggest issues for them. And if they get angry or fight to you, is very possible that marriage problem would be a hardness topic there.
(I’ll leave this topic opened, I really hope an open discussion from all)
Suwito HP is discussing. 
Suwito HP 8:13 am pada 3 Desember 2009 Permalink |
I think nowadays, the culture is beginning to change, especially in the family with high social status, since wealth and career becomes one of the most important things to build a happy family. So, usually, it will not enough to just let the women to depend their lives entirely on their husbands. What’s more, divorces are very common nowadays.
However, of course, it also depends on the characters of their husband to be. If the man of their choice doesn’t have enough courage to stand side by side with his wife in order to make a living and achieve actualization together, then, it’s the woman’s own risk, for, choosing him at the first place. Otherwise, it’s very understandable if divorce would be the right decision later.
i think, that’s my opinion. ^_^